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In the short run, David will experience more psychological pain than Maxine. Still, most gender dysphoric boys have managed the mental transition.

In the long run, Maxine will need serious medical interventions. In late childhood she will need hormones to block puberty; she will then take estrogen for the rest of her life. Eventually, she may want genital surgery. Although this surgery is usually satisfactory, side effects requiring additional surgery are not uncommon. Each way has obvious advantages and disadvantages.

We would prefer to save David the greater pain he will endure during childhood. And we would prefer to save Maxine the serious medical interventions and possible side effects. But therapy to help a pre-adolescent child overcome gender dysphoria can be entirely different.

Some professionals who do this therapy have no moral issue with transgenderism but are trying to help children avoid later medical stress.

That is a reasonable goal, even if it is not the only possible goal. But Obama lumped together all therapies, regardless of their motivation, target age and method. The president can set a better example by pausing at the limits of our knowledge and encouraging scientists to collect the data we need.

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Times Events. Times Store. Facebook Twitter Show more sharing options Share Close extra sharing options. By Eric Vilain, J. Michael Bailey. When I came out first of all I was gay, I was told I was accepted and loved. I was often mistaken for a girl before I transitioned. It was just a natural progression. It gradually happened over a number of years. I had conversations with family and friends over time. I got tremendous support, and felt reassured and loved by my family.

Coming out as trans meant I could be my authentic self in every situation , per cent of the time. It was really liberating to say this is who I am. It made a tremendous difference to everyday conversations and activities.

I started in the civil service in I would have started changing my physical appearance, and during my time there I changed my pronouns. The process itself was quite easy. I worked in an operational dept, and while some people had to catch up with the pronouns, there was no resistance or hesitance.

When you are just yourself, people do accept you as that. The most difficult aspect of it all for me was the long wait to be seen by a gender identity clinic. Trans people want to come to work as their authentic selves, and do the best that they can do.

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